Maybe a parent or a child died early, or someone went missing in a family and was not spoken about, maybe someone committed a crime and never paid for it (did the time), a parent was excluded didn't have access to children. 

These people or events can cause a energy block in a family system. Unconsciously this pattern can play out in later generations, even if we know no history of the first event. A child comes along generations later and feels the same dynamic from generations past but has not conscious understanding of their feelings.  Often seeking help for their feelings as they feel so real for them, but what if they were not your feelings, your story, your struggles and you were carrying them for the bigger family system.

Using a systemic lens we can look at the bigger family system and put things back in order. If you are wondering why do I feel 

• sad,

• depressed,

• lonely

• empty

• not  able to connect

• ignored

• wronged

• the truth is never really spoken

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and it does not make sense to you, maybe you are feeling the feelings of the unresolved stories of past generations. These events can also show up as 

• affairs

• early deaths

• Illness

• not living our purchase

• abuse

• repeating relationship pattern

• financial problems

• feelings that do not make sense

• grief

• and so much more...